One of my Bff's Chef Valene is hosting the wedding reception for her granddaughter Madelyn (also friend Gail Miller's granddaughter!) this weekend. Since Valene was hosting Bucket this week, she chose a wedding theme. We were suppose to bring our wedding pictures and share a few stories about our love story or wedding.
Valene also shared ancient trivia about weddings (flowers to cover up the smell since people didn't bathe) to the wedding cake (meaning good fortune and fertility.) She also recently learned from her sister Janet (Voila! that we visited in France when she lived there)- how to make French pastry cake and she made EACH of us a cake, in a box! Such a fun afternoon with women I love.
Valene also made salad Nicoise- meaning tiny bundles. (usually Nicoise has tuna but Valene did shrimp! It was delicious!) Orange rolls and the Beck Famous Party Cake for dessert.
Here is what I shared about our love story (both taken from old journal writings)
This one is from the journal entry Letter to My 17 year Old Self-
Remember how worried you were that you would never be able to settle down with "one" person? How boys tell you that they pity the guy you will marry because they know you’ll never be faithful. Don’t worry. You can. And all those lists you made of what your dream guy was going to look like, love to do, etc.? Nope. None of it. Except the most important part.
Dance a lot. I know you dance a lot but I’m telling you.....dance a ton!!!! Get all the dancing you need for a lifetime out of your feet right now! I know it is really hard to believe but you are going to marry someone who doesn’t and can’t dance? I know, I know.....it is shocking, isn’t it? I was shocked myself, as well. And guess what? You will survive. You will love a non-dancer in the most marvelous way!
It may behoove you to pay attention to how sports games are played. Learn the rules of football and basketball. If you would but TRY and learn the rules and plays, trust me, your life will be filled with a little less head-bashing. I know your dad and brother don’t watch football and basketball on t.v.......so you don’t know how many games can be played on television on just one Thanksgiving day. It is truly mindboggling, so be prepared and practice not letting your eyes roll back into your head.
and from another entry.
Summary: And even though he likes horses, and I like poetry, he talks "torte" in his legal profession and I bake them, he loves watching ball games (endlessly) and I watch cooking and decorating shows, he’s really athletic and I’m, well... not so athletic, he’s brilliant and I’m scatterbrained, he’s left-brained and I’m totally right-brained, he thinks we need a dump truck, I think he’s nuts, he’s traditional and I’m a little bit funky... and we really don’t have that much in common...
except love, and respect, and humor, and living well together, with the same values, trying to be nice and honest with each other and others, not to mention doting on our wonderful family....and realizing
that we’re extremely blessed. I remember when I was young and would try and cut out my first Valentines, free-hand. The edges were always out of sync- one side lopsided, the other side ballooned. Love can be that way sometimes. But how much easier, when you fold the paper in two, and cut both sides together. When the core is the same, how beautiful the result.